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The Dating Dilemma

"If you're serious about following God in every area of your life and want to date in a godly way, I urge you to buy and devour this book."

Mike Pilavachi Senior Pastor, Soul Survivor Watford

"Rachel and André are the kind of people you would want to have a coffee with and talk about relationships. They are funny, unashamedly honest, deep and profoundly practical. If you are ready for a romance revolution where you live love, as well as have a love life, get this book."

Ian Henderson Founder of 'The Naked Truth Project'

The Dating Dilemma

Rom-coms, fairy-tales and even some Christian teaching can make love and dating sound so simple. Real relationships, of course, rarely are.


Rachel Gardner, André Adefope



The Dating Dilemma



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How do you recognize real love amidst the multitude of other things that go hand in hand with it: infatuation, lust, desperation, attraction, hate? How do you know if the person you are going out with is the person you should spend the rest of your life with? How easy is it to get it wrong?

Rachel Gardner and André Adefope – who both appeared on the BBC TV series 'No Sex please, We're Teenagers' – look at God's guidelines for romance. They ask the difficult questions, but they also ask how God helps us to change - how you can become a godly boyfriend: confident in who you are, supportive, worthy of respect; or a godly girlfriend: sure of yourself, able to nurture selflessness and generosity in relationships. This resource challenges the unhelpful myths and offers honest, wise, down-to-earth advice on dating well.

Suitable for: 14-19 year olds

The Dating Dilemma



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